Sexy Things are for You
I know this title is a bit weird, but bear with me. I think a lot of us misunderstand what sexy things are for. There’s this common thought that wearing sexy things is somehow for someone else. Let me correct that: sexy things are for YOU. They are for YOU to feel powerful. For YOU to feel beautiful. For YOU to feel feminine, soft, beautiful, womanly. Not for anyone else.
I wore this out for date night last week, I have to say, I was feeling myself in this mesh illusion plus size crop top. I’ve been on the hunt for one for a while and when I came across this one, I was faster than lightning when I added it to my cart and checked out. It’s gorgeous – and the perfect mix of sexy but kind of covered. The mesh sleeves make this more demure than it would be otherwise, and the appliques cover the right spots. I wore my Torrid racerback front-close bra with it to keep the focus on the beautiful top and not on my undergarments.
When you see something pretty and sexy at a store and you find yourself thinking… “I don’t have anyone to wear that for” – remember that you are enough. You are the person you should wear that for.